Prelude to Therapeutic Recreation Week

February 6^th to 10^th is Recreation Therapy Awareness Week, so I will use this opportunity to try to explain what my field of study and occupation is. Also there will be events going on around campus during the week à i.e. wheel chair obstacle course in the SLC on Mon Feb 6 from 1-3pm ;)

Many people have tried to ask me what Therapeutic Recreation (TR) is. I’m pretty sure my definition of TR changed, formed, destroyed (lol), and reconstructed over the past 5 years. Sometimes it’s very hard to explain because the client group TR works with is so diverse.

To start, I am NOT a party planner, camp counselor, occupational/ music/ physiotherapist, social worker, nurse, PSW or a person who gets paid doing a “volunteer’s job”. I work in collaboration with all these healthcare providers and vice versa. The purpose of Recreation Therapy is to use play as a form of rehabilitation, increase quality of life, and promote wellness and health (physically, socially, emotionally, & mentally). A play setting provides an environment where the individual feels safe and this is where they reveal many of their stories and hardships to you.

A Rec Therapist is trained to do a needs/ abilities assessment (ax) on patients (there are many more different types of ax than just the 2 mentioned), design suitable intervention according to the patient’s needs, and evaluate the patient’s progress towards a healthy lifestyle in a holistic manner.

Quick example: in an addictions and mental health setting, the Rec Therapist would teach positive coping skills to those with an addictions issue, combating depression/ suicidal thoughts, or both (dual diagnosis). Reality check and behaviour coaching will be involved in the work of the therapist. And the role of the therapist would be to guide the client to realize why it is beneficial to engage in activities other than cutting or doing recreational drugs (lol this one’s for you GL, JC, & E-money).

I can go on forever about this. Within the next week or so I’ll probably post about the TR awareness week stuff and hopefully I’ll get to some of the work I’ve done during co-op.

Peace!

Challenge- acknowledging

The challenge for this week's book study I'm doing with my friend is acknowledging. Acknowledging that I am weak and powerless coming upon frustrations, temptations, struggles... etc. and acknowledging that God is powerful over all frustrations, temptations, struggles... etc.

"Let's talk about sex"

The church I go to in Waterloo, Elevation, is doing a series on some of the most uncomfortable things to talk about, sexuality. Upcoming topics are "Single like Jesus", "The M-word", and "The Homophobic Church". These are really interesting topics as many, myself included, get uncomfortable even though we pretend to be completely comfortable discussing them. Anyways, last week was on sex.

In our culture today, there are 3 major lies we believe in about sex:

1) Sex is only natural

Sex is seen as the natural thing to do. It is everywhere on ads, tv, and rarely do you not hear implications of sex in songs. On the other hand, abstinence is seen as the unnatural, weird, awkward, and it is often made fun of when practiced. There is this mentality that we should just do whatever we want, whenever we feel like, and no need to suppress any urges. What are we animals?

2) Sex is only physical

Because sex is done with another human being, another soul. It is not just physical. Yes it obviously includes the physical, but it is also emotional and relational. Hence this is one of the reason why sometimes it takes people so long to heal from the break up of a physical relationship.

3) Sex is an expression of love

Often in relationships, sex is seen as a goal instead of understanding it as a gift form God. Sex is not the "ultimate expression of love". It is one of the many things that a married couple can share together as they journey and grow together.

But this is what God said:

"It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God." --- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5

"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body." --- 1 Corinthians 6:18-20

"Should your springs overflow in the streets,

your streams of water in the public squares?

Let them be yours alone,

never to be shared with strangers." --- Proverbs 5: 16-17

(Let it be yours and your husband/ wife alone. Never share it with another)

But don't forget, there is no shame to sex in the way God intended it...

"The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." --- Genesis 2:25

Not that you shouldn't have sex at all in your life. Only thing is, it is a gift from God for married couples. We should avoid and flee from sexual immorality (i.e. pornography, having sex outside marriage) Just because you are in a serious dating relationship and is heading towards marriage doesn't mean you get a free ticket to sex right now.

"Love may be blind, but it doesn't mean you should feel your way around." --- Pastor Brandon

A book was recommended: "Real Sex" by Lauren Winner. The author wrote about how sometimes the church can value virginity so much that it makes those who lost it in the wrong place feels like 2nd class. But Christianity is about receiving a 2nd chance from Christ... God's grace, repentance, and forgiveness. And also, how should the Christian community help and support each other?

So, what standard have you set for yourself? Have you even set a standard? Or just feeling your way around?

I'll be back

I almost forgot I had a blog lol Wait... no I still have one haha

There are many things I want to talk about, but haven't collected my thoughts yet. But to make sure I'll actually post (soon... I hope) I'm just going to make a list first :D

1) Year in Review for 2011

2) Therapeutic Recreation Awareness Week

3) "Let's talk about sex" sermon I heard

Quick updates

Luckily I got to leave work early today :D(flexing time b/c I'll need to work overtime next week ==") I'm really looking forward to this weekend. I don't have anything big planned, but I do plan on making some Christmas cards tomorrow. Bought some craft supplies during the week... hahaha it was such a struggle stopping myself from making anything during the week.

Hopefully nothing will distract me from my plans. And hopefully the cards won't turn out ugly LOL

Anyways, a Psalm I would like to share:

Keep me safe, O God,

for in you I take refuge.

I said to the LORD, "You are my Lord;

apart from you I have no good thing."

..........

I will praise the LORD, who counsels me;

even at night my heart instructs me.

I have set the LORD always before me.

Because he is at my right hand,

I will not be shaken.

Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices;

my body also will rest secure,

because you will not abandon me to the grave,

nor will you let your Holy One see decay.

You have made known to me the path of life;

you will fill me with joy in your presence,

with eternal pleasures at your right hand.

Psalm 16

It's such a frustrating and painful process to go through when God transforms you. I want to and is trying but my natural sinful desire wrestles me to the ground. It is so so hard to do. But my God is an all powerful God who makes the impossible possible. There is so much comfort just knowing who He is even when I fail Him. Again, He is not done with me and He is not done with you!

Fall Challenge: Day 28

.......slacked off.... hehe

For the past few days, I'm thankful for:

The hope that God's work will be complete in me despite my many failures and imperfections.

"...But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me... For when I am weak, then I am strong." - 2 Corinthians 12:9- 10

Fall Challenge: Day 24

Today I am thankful for...

1) The work God started and that He will complete His work

2) I have a God who hears me when I call

:)